Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Jaw Distraction details
Device description (in Mom terms): The mandible was broken on either side and then 2 metal plates were screwed into position on either side of the breaks with 4 tiny (3ish mm long) metal screws. A long rod is connected to these plates that extends from her ears to her chin. All this is inside her mouth, between her gums and cheeks. Then 1 1/2 inch flexible screws hang down on the outside of her jaw on either side of her trach. These screws are what we attach the screwdriver to and turn each day.
Living through jaw distraction: The distraction device is very delicate and therefore Cicily (or anyone else- including x-ray technicians!) cannot turn them (except designated 3 turns/day), pull them, or fall on them. Dr. Singh was quite insistant that any of these things could lead to device failure and ruin the distraction. Since Cicily is a wobbly toddler, she has constant 24/7 supervision to ensure she does not twist, fall on, bump, or pull her device. I stay with Cicily all day- we play lots of song games (patty cake, monkeys, etc.), read books, and do light physical and occupational therapy playtime. I also keep watch while she is napping as her habit is to stand up in her crib until she falls asleep and then roll over on her face while she's sleeping, neither of which she should do right now. Chris and Grandma DeEtte have taken turns staying up with Cicily at night to watch for these same sleep habits, give her medicine, suction, monitor oxygen levels, and ensure her trach stays humidified.
So far the distraction process is going better than I expected. Although we are nervous the space in her device is not the 11 mm is should be now, but we will discuss that more Fri with Dr. Singh. I have also heard recently that the screws become more painful to turn at the end of distraction, which I'm glad to know but sad because I was thrilled that Cicily seemed completely unaffected when I turned the screws. This process and time in our lives would not be as calm and relatively easy as it is without our amazing family and friends who have done everything from praying, sending positive thoughts, bringing dinners, watching Maya, and expressing love and concern. Thank you all so very much.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Jaw Distraction Surgery - Phase I
I want to post pictures for those who are interested and hopefully to help other families get a better idea of what distraction can be like. Friendly warning though- if you are extremely faint hearted, you may not want to look closely.
A few hours post op.
Still intubated and paralyzed. If there's one thing I could possibly dislike more than the trach- it's the ET tube (being intubated)!
About 24 hours post op.
Finally awake and returned to the trach so she can have a good snuggle before zonking out again. Quite a bit of swelling in her face.
36 hours post op.
A good look at the distractor "screws/keychains/beard" as we fondly have been calling them. The sore on her lips is from cranking her mouth open so wide to position the plates and screws.
48 hours post op.
In the car on our way home from the hospital!!!
48 hours post op.
Home again and smiling. Can you get any more tough and pleasant than that?!
Certainly not back to her normal Cicily self, but MUCH better than yesterday!
Monday, June 30, 2008
Photo Album - 20 months
Isn't she supposed to have a small mouth?!? :)
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Nice People
I've even found that people are more accomodating and helpful when Cis is with me! Thanks Cis, your great looks and and little extras are helping us out!
The latest unbelievably kind act began yesterday. Two of the doctors working together for Cicily's jaw distraction -craniofacial plastic surgeon and orthodontist- came up with a new idea to have a helmet of sorts custom made for Cis to wear for a few weeks to make her bite more closed after her jaw is grown. So the woman who created the baby helmets for kids with flat areas on their heads called us herself yesterday and met us in Phoenix to take Cis' measurements for a custom helmet. It's a $4000 device that she's doing for free and she's putting hours and hours of her time into it on a couple hours notice. I was so overwhelmed that I cried when I hung up the phone (mostly because it's unbelievably kind of her, but also a tiny bit because now my planned "fun" week has turned into an appointment-filled crazy week). If anyone needs a baby helmet for plagiocephaly- I highly recommend Cranial Technologies!!
There are just so many good people I meet all the time, it's so inspiring. So I just wanted to say a giant THANK YOU to all the Nice People out there in the world and especially to all of you loving, concerned people reading this.
We love you!
Sunday, June 22, 2008
You can hurt me...but don't mess with my sister!
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Photo Album - 19 months
Monday, June 2, 2008
The Trach Club
Maya, Cicily, and I were at the library today and we happened down the same isle as a little girl about three years old. At first I noticed her shoes were the same as Maya's new shoes, and then Maya bursts out- "Mom, look she has a trach!!!" She was so giddy you'd think she just bumped into Santa Clause at the library. Then Maya turns to Cicily and says, "Look Cis that girl has a trach just like you and she's walking and everything." Cicily waved to the girl as she does to almost everyone she sees, but she wasn't quite as giddy as Maya. Sadly we were too busy being excited that she had a trach that this girl ran ran off before we could talk to her. So we continued looking for books and another girl runs past us (I know we were at the library, but yes these two girls were running- full of life- trachs and all!) and Maya shrieks, "She has a trach also!" It was such an exciting thing for us to see other little girls breathing and making noise just like our Cicily does. I realized it's the first time Maya has seen anyone with a trach other than her sister.
2nd Trach Club story: Last summer our family was swimming at a hotel pool. Cicily was bobbing in the water and splashing around as usual, but it was getting late and we got out to go back to our room. As Cis and I were drying off a lady came up to me and said, "Excuse me, would you mind if my granddaughter talked to you." I of course gear up for the same old questions about Cicily like 'what's that around her neck?' I was surprised this time though. The little girl says very animatedly, "My little brother has a trach just like her! She's very cute." I was so pleasantly surprised and excited to meet this little girl, I almost cried!
So I realize there's a special affinity for families who have a member who breathes with a tracheal tube. It's like a special club that's new and sometimes exciting to be a member of; but also one whose members rejoice when people get to leave their society.
There are some famous members of the Trach Club. Catherine Zeta-Jones had a trach for pnuemonia when she was little. You can in fact see the scar on her neck, Chris and I noted it in the movie No Reservations. Elizabeth Taylor, Laura Innes (ER), Luther Vandross, Christopher Reeve, and even Pope John Paul II also had trachs. (See http://www.tracheostomy.com/resources/more/famous/index.htm for longer list)